Let all that you do be done in love. – 1 Corinthians 16:14
Love and Compassion
As we discuss fostering, we recognize that at the heart of it is love and compassion. Fostering is not merely about providing a home; it’s about wrapping those in our care with the warmth of love. God calls us to love one another deeply, which means nurturing those around us, especially children who need care and stability. By opening our hearts and homes, we embody Christ’s love, allowing us to create a safe environment for growth and healing. The compassion we show can leave a lasting impact on the lives of those we welcome into our families.
1 John 4:19
We love because he first loved us. – 1 John 4:19
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Galatians 5:22-23
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law. – Galatians 5:22-23
Colossians 3:14
And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. – Colossians 3:14
Ephesians 4:32
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. – Ephesians 4:32
Providing a Safe Haven
Fostering also means providing a safe space for children who may have faced trauma or instability. It is our responsibility to ensure that we create an environment where they can feel secure and loved. Throughout the Bible, we see that safety and refuge are frequently described as gifts from God. By being the safe haven for children, we reflect God’s promise of protection and love. Our commitment to fostering can help build their self-esteem and faith as they experience kindness in a world that may have hurt them.
Psalm 91:1
Whoever dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. – Psalm 91:1
Isaiah 41:10
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. – Isaiah 41:10
Psalm 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. – Psalm 46:1
Matthew 11:28
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. – Matthew 11:28
Proverbs 14:26
Whoever fears the Lord has a secure fortress, and for their children, it will be a refuge. – Proverbs 14:26
Building Trust and Relationships
As we foster, we have the unique opportunity to build relational bridges with the children entrusted to us. Trust is vital in any relationship, and it is especially crucial when working with children who may be distrustful due to past experiences. By investing time and love into these relationships, we can help them heal and build their trust in others again. The Bible encourages us to develop loving and honest connections with one another, and fostering gives us this beautiful chance to practice this commandment actively.
Proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity. – Proverbs 17:17
Hebrews 13:1
Let mutual love continue. – Hebrews 13:1
Romans 12:10
Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. – Romans 12:10
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Ephesians 2:19
Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household. – Ephesians 2:19
Encouragement and Support
Offering encouragement is essential in the foster care journey. Children in foster homes often face feelings of abandonment and insecurity. By being their support system, we uplift them and remind them of their worth. The encouragement we offer can help to instill confidence and strength in them, guiding them through difficult moments. The Bible is filled with verses that speak to the importance of uplifting one another, and as foster parents, we have the chance to be God’s hands and feet, encouraging those in our care.
Philippians 4:13
I can do all this through him who gives me strength. – Philippians 4:13
2 Corinthians 1:4
Who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble. – 2 Corinthians 1:4
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. – Psalm 34:18
1 Samuel 30:6
David was greatly distressed, for the people spoke of stoning him, but David strengthened himself in the Lord his God. – 1 Samuel 30:6
Isaiah 40:31
But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. – Isaiah 40:31
Faith and Guidance
Our faith plays a huge role in fostering. It’s essential for us to seek God’s guidance actively during this process. Children in foster care may have their beliefs challenged or may be entirely new to faith. As we journey together with them, our faith can guide them in understanding love, kindness, and acceptance. By sharing our beliefs through our actions and words, we can lead them in discovering the beauty that faith brings in life, helping them to develop their own connection with God.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. – Proverbs 3:5-6
James 1:5
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. – James 1:5
Philippians 4:6-7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:6-7
Psalm 119:105
Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. – Psalm 119:105
Isaiah 30:21
Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.” – Isaiah 30:21
Hope and Future
Finally, fostering brings hope for a brighter future. Our role is to plant seeds of hope and dreams in children’s hearts, reminding them that they are valuable and deserving of love. The Bible beautifully articulates God’s plans for us. By fostering, we can help these children realize their worth and potential. As we embark on this transformative journey, we can teach them that no matter their past, a promising future is possible.
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. – Jeremiah 29:11
Romans 15:13
May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. – Romans 15:13
Isaiah 43:19
See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. – Isaiah 43:19
Psalm 42:11
Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God. – Psalm 42:11
Romans 8:28
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. – Romans 8:28
Final Thoughts
Through fostering, we can experience the incredible journey of love, compassion, and hope. We are called to provide a secure haven for children, allowing them to heal and trust again. In every moment spent with them, we can inspire encouragement and guidance, helping them navigate life’s challenges. By sharing our faith and offering support, we show each child their value and the bright future ahead of them. This journey of fostering is not just about changing lives; it’s about creating lasting bonds built on love and trust.
As we embrace the role of foster parents and caregivers, let us remember the importance of kindness and generosity in our relationships, not only with our foster children but with everyone around us. We can utilize the teachings from the Bible to guide us in this meaningful work.
If you’re interested in exploring similar topics, check out our articles on love and children and kindness and generosity. Together, let’s continue to spread love in our communities and embrace the calling we have been given.