But I want you to be free from concern. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord. – 1 Corinthians 7:32
Understanding Singleness and Purpose
In our faith, we know that being single can be a glorious opportunity to focus on God. When we are not married, we have a unique chance to dedicate our full attention to the Lord’s work without the distractions that can come from a marital relationship. We can grow spiritually and serve the community, exploring our gifts and talents in new ways. This time can help us understand our purpose and develop a deeper relationship with God. Instead of viewing singleness as a drawback, we can see it as a blessing and a season of potential.
1 Corinthians 7:32
But I want you to be free from concern. He who is unmarried cares for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord. – 1 Corinthians 7:32
1 Corinthians 7:34
There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. – 1 Corinthians 7:34
Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. – Jeremiah 29:11
Isaiah 54:5
For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is His name; and your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel; He is called the God of the whole earth. – Isaiah 54:5
Psalm 37:4
Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. – Psalm 37:4
Embracing the Gift of Time
We should embrace our time of singleness as a gift. Without the obligations of marriage and family, we can invest our energy in relationships with God and others. This period allows us to build friendships, serve those in need, and contribute to our communities. Making the most of our time can even prepare us for future relationships, as we learn about ourselves and grow in faith. We can cultivate our character and discover what we truly value in life and love.
Ephesians 5:15
See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. – Ephesians 5:15
Psalm 90:12
So teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. – Psalm 90:12
Romans 12:2
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. – Romans 12:2
Proverbs 19:21
There are many plans in a man’s heart, nevertheless the Lord’s counsel—that will stand. – Proverbs 19:21
Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. – Philippians 4:13
Finding Contentment in Christ
During our time of being unmarried, we can find true contentment in our relationship with Christ. We know that He satisfies our needs and fills the voids in our hearts. Seeking fulfillment from God ensures that we do not look to human relationships for validation or happiness. When we nurture our relationship with our Savior, we cultivate joy, peace, and a sense of belonging that does not depend on our marital status.
Philippians 4:19
And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. – Philippians 4:19
Matthew 5:6
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled. – Matthew 5:6
Psalms 62:1
Truly my soul silently waits for God; from Him comes my salvation. – Psalms 62:1
1 Peter 5:7
Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you. – 1 Peter 5:7
Colossians 3:2
Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. – Colossians 3:2
Living in Community
Singleness gives us a wonderful chance to invest in our communities and build relationships with family and friends. We can be a source of support and encouragement to one another. Being built in love and unity is essential in the body of Christ, and as singles, we have endless opportunities to reach out, offer help, and experience the joy of fellowship. Together, we can create lasting bonds while serving God’s purpose in our lives.
Hebrews 10:24-25
And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. – Hebrews 10:24-25
Galatians 6:2
Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. – Galatians 6:2
Romans 15:7
Therefore receive one another, just as Christ also received us, to the glory of God. – Romans 15:7
1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore comfort each other and edify one another, just as you also are doing. – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Ephesians 4:16
From whom the whole body, joined and knit together by what every joint supplies, according to the effective working by which every part does its share, causes growth of the body for the edifying of itself in love. – Ephesians 4:16
Trusting God’s Timing
We may sometimes feel anxious about being unmarried when we desire companionship, but we can trust God’s timing in our lives. He knows what is best for us and when it is best to bring specific people into our lives. By placing our faith in Him, we can allow God to guide our hearts and lead us to what’s next. Clinging to His promises helps us remain patient and hopeful as we await our divine appointments.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. – Proverbs 3:5-6
Isaiah 40:31
But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint. – Isaiah 40:31
Psalms 27:14
Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord! – Psalms 27:14
Psalm 37:7
Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him; do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who brings wicked schemes to pass. – Psalm 37:7
Isaiah 43:18-19
Do not remember the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth; shall you not know it? I will even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. – Isaiah 43:18-19
Choosing Joy and Peace
While we navigate this season of being unmarried, we can actively choose joy and peace in our lives. We are called to rejoice in the Lord, regardless of our circumstances. This perspective shift allows us to appreciate the blessings we have rather than focusing on what we may feel we lack. Christ offers peace that surpasses all understanding, and we can cling to this promise during moments of loneliness or uncertainty.
Philippians 4:4
Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice! – Philippians 4:4
Colossians 3:15
And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. – Colossians 3:15
Psalm 116:7
Return to your rest, O my soul, for the Lord has dealt bountifully with you. – Psalm 116:7
Romans 15:13
Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. – Romans 15:13
Psalm 23:1
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. – Psalm 23:1
Final Thoughts
As we consider the path of singleness, we realize that this time can be filled with incredible opportunities. We can serve others, grow in our relationship with Christ, and create meaningful connections. Trusting in God’s plan allows us to find joy in our journey. We shouldn’t see not being married as a setback, but rather as a season of life where we flourish in Christ. As we lean into our faith and remain patient, we can look forward to where God leads us next.
Embracing our status as unmarried offers us a chance to reflect on God’s goodness and faithfulness. Whether we are seeking companionship or enjoying our independence, let’s pursue a life that honors God and uplifts others. Remember that we are not alone, and our worth is not measured by our relationship status. Explore more empowering scripture by reading about forced marriage or the qualities of a future wife.
Let us cherish this time and trust in God’s perfect timing!