“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” – 1 Corinthians 13:13
God’s Definition of Love
As we think about love, let’s remember that God’s definition of love goes beyond human emotions. Love, as described in the Bible, is patient and kind. It is a commitment to each other that reflects the love that Christ showed us. This love is not just a feeling but a choice we make every day. During our wedding ceremony, we acknowledge the unconditional love that God has for us, and in turn, we promise to reflect that love in our marriage.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
1 John 4:8
“Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” – 1 John 4:8
Romans 13:10
“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” – Romans 13:10
Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14
Song of Solomon 8:6-7
“Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot sweep it away.” – Song of Solomon 8:6-7
Commitment in Love
During our wedding ceremony, we make vows that signify a lifelong commitment, which is deeply rooted in love. Commitment means being dedicated to our partner, embracing them during the ups and downs of life. The Scriptures teach us about the importance of commitment through love, showing us that love endures, perseveres, and holds firm through challenges. By honoring our commitments to one another, we reflect God’s steadfast love.
Genesis 2:24
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24
Ephesians 5:25
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” – Ephesians 5:25
Ephesians 5:30-31
“For we are members of his body. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” – Ephesians 5:30-31
Proverbs 3:3-4
“Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man.” – Proverbs 3:3-4
Malachi 2:14
“You ask, ‘Why?’ It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.” – Malachi 2:14
Celebrating Love
Our wedding ceremony is a beautiful celebration of love. It is not just a legal contract; it is a joyful occasion where we acknowledge the bond God has blessed us with. The Bible teaches us to rejoice in love, to celebrate the gift of companionship, and to express our gratitude for one another. By celebrating our love publicly, we are honoring each other, our families, and God.
Psalm 100:4
“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.” – Psalm 100:4
Ecclesiastes 3:12-13
“I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.” – Ecclesiastes 3:12-13
Psalm 118:24
“The Lord has done it this very day; let us rejoice today and be glad.” – Psalm 118:24
Proverbs 15:17
“Better a small serving of vegetables with love than a fattened calf with hatred.” – Proverbs 15:17
1 John 3:1
“See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” – 1 John 3:1
Expressions of Love
During our wedding ceremony, we express our love in many ways, from our vows to the exchange of rings. Each expression carries weight and meaning, reminding us and others of the covenant we are making. Love is active, and we demonstrate it through our words and actions. The Bible helps guide us in how to show love truthfully and sincerely in our relationship.
1 Corinthians 13:1
“If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.” – 1 Corinthians 13:1
1 Timothy 1:5
“The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.” – 1 Timothy 1:5
John 15:12
“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” – John 15:12
1 Peter 4:8
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8
Colossians 3:19
“Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.” – Colossians 3:19
Enduring Love
As we arrive at our wedding day, we commit to a love that endures. The Bible teaches us that true love withstands trials and grows stronger over time. We are reminded that as we face challenges, love becomes our anchor. This enduring love is essential as we build our lives together, ensuring we remain united through every season of life.
1 Corinthians 13:8
“Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.” – 1 Corinthians 13:8
Romans 8:39
“Neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” – Romans 8:39
Philippians 1:9
“And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight.” – Philippians 1:9
1 Peter 5:10
“And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.” – 1 Peter 5:10
2 Thessalonians 3:5
“May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:5
Unity in Love
Our wedding ceremony reflects the unity that God desires for every marriage. When we join together as one, we display the beauty of God’s design for love and harmony. The scriptures guide us in fostering this unity, teaching us that together we are stronger and able to face life’s challenges. We should continually focus on bringing our hearts and minds together as we journey through life.
1 Peter 3:8
“Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.” – 1 Peter 3:8
Philippians 2:2
“Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.” – Philippians 2:2
Ephesians 4:2-3
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” – Ephesians 4:2-3
Romans 12:10
“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” – Romans 12:10
Colossians 3:14-15
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” – Colossians 3:14-15
Final Thoughts
As we celebrate love on our wedding day, it’s essential to remember the depth and meaning of the commitments we make. The verses we explored remind us that love is a journey guided by God’s principles. We are called to show patience, kindness, and unwavering dedication to one another. In celebrating our love, we embrace the blessings God has bestowed upon us, and we commit to nurturing our relationship every day.
In this journey, let’s also consider the importance of unity and expressing our love in meaningful ways. Love should be the foundation of our marriage, guiding us through life’s ups and downs. As we walk together as partners, we can rely on God’s love to strengthen our bond and keep us united.
May we continue to pursue love not just on our wedding day but throughout our lives together. For those looking for inspiration, check out more on Bible verses about love and encouragement or ways to keep God at the center of your marriage.