“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” – 1 Corinthians 13:13
The Foundation of Love
We often think about love as the foundation of relationships. The Bible consistently speaks about love as the strongest force when it comes to building and maintaining lasting connections. Keeping God at the center of our relationships fuels this love and demonstrates how love is not just a feeling but a commitment to honor and respect one another in God’s presence. This foundation leads us to become selfless and nurturing partners who seek the well-being of each other through the lens of God’s teachings. With faith and love intertwined, we can support one another in our spiritual growth while exemplifying God’s love in our everyday interactions.
1 John 4:19
“We love because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19
Romans 13:10
“Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” – Romans 13:10
1 Peter 4:8
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” – 1 Peter 4:8
1 Corinthians 16:14
“Do everything in love.” – 1 Corinthians 16:14
Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14
Commitment to God Together
As we engage in our relationships, making a conscious commitment to God together can strengthen our bond. When we prioritize prayer, worship, and Bible study as a couple, we grow spiritually while deepening our connection to each other. This spiritual commitment allows God to work within us and our relationship as we learn to rely on Him for guidance and support. Together, we can experience the joys and challenges of life with faith, knowing God’s plan is what ultimately matters.
Matthew 18:20
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” – Matthew 18:20
Ephesians 5:25
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” – Ephesians 5:25
Ecclesiastes 4:12
“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” – Ecclesiastes 4:12
Philippians 1:3
“I thank my God every time I remember you.” – Philippians 1:3
Colossians 3:17
“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” – Colossians 3:17
Building Trust in God
Trust is an essential part of any relationship, and trusting in God together brings a deeper dimension to that bond. Honoring God allows us to rely on His teachings as a guide for our actions. When we trust in God, we acknowledge that He knows what is best for us, both individually and as a couple. Trusting in God also allows us to overcome doubts and fears that may arise, knowing that He walks alongside us through every challenge.
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
Isaiah 40:31
“But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint.” – Isaiah 40:31
Psalms 37:5
“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him and he will do this.” – Psalms 37:5
Psalms 56:3
“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” – Psalms 56:3
1 Peter 5:7
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7
Praying Together
Prayer is one of the most powerful tools we have for nurturing our relationship and keeping God at the center. When we pray together, we not only communicate with God but also deepen our connection with one another. This practice encourages vulnerability and strengthens our faith as we seek God’s wisdom and protection for our relationship. Moreover, it allows us to celebrate our blessings and lean on Him during challenging times as a united front.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
James 5:16
“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” – James 5:16
Philippians 4:6-7
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” – Philippians 4:6-7
Mark 11:24
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” – Mark 11:24
Luke 18:1
“Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.” – Luke 18:1
Seeking God’s Guidance
In any relationship, seeking God’s guidance is vital for maintaining harmony and love. When we allow God to lead our decisions, plans, and aspirations, we acknowledge that He knows our needs even better than we do. By inviting God into our discussions, we find clarity and direction, ultimately walking together toward His greater purpose for our lives. This allegiance to God’s will fosters peace and joy in the challenges and blessings we face.
Proverbs 16:3
“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” – Proverbs 16:3
Psalms 25:4-5
“Show me your ways, Lord, teach me your paths. Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.” – Psalms 25:4-5
Psalms 119:105
“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” – Psalms 119:105
Isaiah 30:21
“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.'” – Isaiah 30:21
Proverbs 3:7
“Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil.” – Proverbs 3:7
Overcoming Challenges Together
Every relationship goes through hardships, but overcoming them together, while relying on God, builds resilience and strengthens our connection. When we face challenges, we learn to lean into each other and God for support and understanding. By doing this, we create a solid bond that is abundant in grace and forgiveness. Allowing God’s principles to guide our responses to these challenges deepens our mutual commitment and helps us emerge stronger and more united than ever before.
Romans 8:28
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28
2 Corinthians 4:8-9
“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” – 2 Corinthians 4:8-9
Philippians 4:13
“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13
1 Peter 4:12-13
“Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.” – 1 Peter 4:12-13
James 1:2-3
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” – James 1:2-3
Final Thoughts
As we explore the importance of keeping God in our relationships, let’s remember the significance of love, trust, prayer, and guidance. When we intentionally invite God into our connections, we find a solid foundation for building lasting and meaningful partnerships. Together, we can face challenges with faith, nurture our growth, and support each other through life’s ups and downs.
It is through this shared journey of keeping God at the center that we experience the fullness of His love and wisdom. By being committed to prayer and directing tasks toward His guidance, we cultivate a loving environment where both partners thrive. Let’s take the encouragement from these scriptures to heart and apply them in our daily interactions.
If you want to deepen your understanding of God’s role in our relationships, you might want to explore topics that cover God in Relationships or God’s Timing in Relationships. The more we seek God’s wisdom, the more fulfilling our relationships can be.