“For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” – 1 Samuel 16:7
True Handsomeness Comes from the Heart
When we think about how handsome a man is, we often look at their physical attributes. However, the Bible reminds us that true beauty is more than skin deep. It emphasizes a man’s character, integrity, and the goodness in their heart. We should focus on the qualities that make a man truly handsome – love, kindness, and humility. Our perception of handsomeness must align with God’s view, which goes beyond just the outer appearance. This gives us a fresh perspective, urging us to appreciate the deeper qualities that radiate from within a person.
1 Samuel 16:7
“But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” – 1 Samuel 16:7
Proverbs 31:30
“Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” – Proverbs 31:30
Psalms 139:14
“I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” – Psalms 139:14
Matthew 23:28
“So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness.” – Matthew 23:28
1 Peter 3:3-4
“Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.” – 1 Peter 3:3-4
Physical Appearance in God’s Creation
As we contemplate handsomeness, we should also recognize that God created each of us uniquely. This is a part of His divine plan. A man’s physical features, whether tall, muscular, or with a charming smile, are reflections of God’s creativity. We can appreciate these attributes and celebrate our differences. Each feature can tell the beautiful story of who we are. In recognizing our uniqueness, we honor the Creator who fashioned us with purpose and care. Handsomeness can be appreciated in many forms, each showcasing God’s artistry.
Genesis 1:27
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” – Genesis 1:27
Songs of Solomon 4:7
“You are all together beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.” – Songs of Solomon 4:7
Psalms 147:4
“He determines the number of the stars; he gives to all of them their names.” – Psalms 147:4
Isaiah 43:7
“Everyone who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.” – Isaiah 43:7
James 1:17
“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.” – James 1:17
Confidence and Charm in Actions
Our actions and behavior often shape how handsome we appear to others. A confident man displays charm not just in how he looks, but also in how he treats others, how he carries himself, and how he speaks. It is through acts of kindness and love that a man truly shines, revealing a handsomeness that captivates hearts and inspires admiration. Confidence stems from our identity in Christ, knowing that we are loved and valued, leading us to engage with those around us more positively. This is an attractive quality that highlights the beauty of character over mere appearance.
Proverbs 15:13
“A glad heart makes a cheerful face, but by sorrow of heart the spirit is crushed.” – Proverbs 15:13
Proverbs 17:22
“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” – Proverbs 17:22
1 Thessalonians 5:11
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Philippians 4:13
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” – Philippians 4:13
Colossians 3:23
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” – Colossians 3:23
Expression of Love and Kindness
Another vital aspect of handsomeness is our capacity to love. The way a man expresses love through words and actions can lead to a deeper understanding of his character. We should see handsomeness as an opportunity to show kindness and empathy. A man who actively cares for others, provides support, and shows respect becomes genuinely attractive. The Bible teaches us the importance of love, urging us to express it genuinely. Loving one’s neighbor as oneself is an essential aspect of true handsomeness that resonates with the heart.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5
Matthew 5:16
“In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16
John 15:12
“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” – John 15:12
Galatians 5:13
“For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.” – Galatians 5:13
Romans 13:10
“Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.” – Romans 13:10
Strength in Character
Lastly, we consider the strength of character that contributes to a man’s handsomeness. Courage, honesty, and integrity are powerful traits that elevate any individual’s attractiveness. These virtues reflect a strong connection to God and align with His will for our lives. Men who exhibit strength in their convictions add a level of depth to their handsomeness that is hard to ignore. We must strive to build our character according to God’s word, as this growth not only makes us more appealing but also leads us to be better individuals in every aspect of our lives.
Philippians 4:8
“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.” – Philippians 4:8
Proverbs 12:4
“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones.” – Proverbs 12:4
2 Timothy 1:7
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
Proverbs 21:21
“Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor.” – Proverbs 21:21
Isaiah 40:31
“But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” – Isaiah 40:31
Final Thoughts
In all things, we can learn that true handsomeness is not merely about outward beauty. It is found in the heart, in the way we treat others, and in our character. Each man is uniquely created and possesses distinct qualities that can shine beautifully when rooted in love and kindness. Remembering that we are made in the image of God helps us to appreciate ourselves and others more deeply. As we strive for the true qualities of handsomeness, we become reflections of God’s grace and love.
There is so much to explore about our identity and beauty in God’s eyes. I encourage you to reflect on these truths and to dive deeper into understanding how God sees us. You can check out more on how we are all beautiful in the eyes of the Lord at God Saying We Are Beautiful or read about how God looks at the heart through God Looking at the Heart.
Let’s continue to strive for the qualities that illuminate our inner handsomeness, embracing our unique beauty as we grow in our faith.