“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” – Mark 10:9
The Purpose of Holy Matrimony
In our lives, we often seek to discern the purpose of the relationships we enter. Holy matrimony stands as a sacred bond, ordained by God to reflect love, unity, and support. Within this beautiful covenant, we find that marriage serves a dual purpose: a fulfillment of companionship and a channel for God’s divine love. This commitment not only unifies a man and a woman, but it also invites God into their lives, creating a threefold cord that is unbreakable. Embracing the purpose of holy matrimony means that we are committed to growing together and supporting one another in our journeys of faith and life.
Genesis 2:24
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” – Genesis 2:24
Ephesians 5:31
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” – Ephesians 5:31
Malachi 2:14
“You ask, ‘Why?’ It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant.” – Malachi 2:14
1 Corinthians 7:2
“But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.” – 1 Corinthians 7:2
Proverbs 18:22
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.” – Proverbs 18:22
The Calling to Love in Marriage
In holy matrimony, love is not merely an emotion, but a calling that we choose to embrace every day. God’s design encourages us to reflect His love in our marriages. The type of love we are called to exhibit in our marital relationships reflects patience, kindness, humility, and sacrifice. It’s through this lens that we understand the seriousness of our vows and the commitment we make to support and uplift one another, creating an atmosphere where love can thrive amidst challenges.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Ephesians 5:25
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” – Ephesians 5:25
Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14
Ephesians 4:2
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2
Song of Solomon 8:6-7
“Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame.” – Song of Solomon 8:6-7
Marriage as a Covenant
It’s important to realize that holy matrimony is not just a contract, but a covenant made before God. We commit ourselves to one another not only for our own benefit but also in service to Him. This bond is unbreakable and sacred, symbolizing a deep promise of faithfulness and devotion. As we honor our commitment, we reflect the faithfulness of God in His covenant with us, fostering an environment of trust, respect, and grace in our marriages.
Psalm 37:4
“Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” – Psalm 37:4
Proverbs 2:17
“Who has left the partner of her youth and ignored the covenant she made before God.” – Proverbs 2:17
Matthew 19:6
“So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” – Matthew 19:6
Ephesians 5:32
“This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.” – Ephesians 5:32
Hebrews 13:4
“Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” – Hebrews 13:4
The Role of Faith in Marriage
Our commitment in holy matrimony becomes even stronger when faith is at the center. When we recognize the importance of including God in our union, we develop a stronger foundation based on prayer, scripture, and shared beliefs. Together, we can uplift one another and tackle life’s challenges by trusting God’s plan for our lives as a couple. This mutual faith nurtures our connection and helps us grow in our individual and collective walks with Christ.
Philippians 4:13
“I can do all this through him who gives me strength.” – Philippians 4:13
Matthew 18:20
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” – Matthew 18:20
1 Peter 3:7
“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” – 1 Peter 3:7
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
James 5:16
“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” – James 5:16
Communication and Conflict Resolution
Good communication is vital in holy matrimony. When we are open and honest with each other, we create a safe space to resolve conflicts. Our conversations should be filled with love, patience, and a desire to understand each other better. Remembering that we are teammates, not opponents, fosters an environment where resolution can thrive. Through this compassionate dialogue, we can move beyond our differences and strengthen our bond.
James 1:19
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” – James 1:19
Proverbs 15:1
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1
Colossians 4:6
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” – Colossians 4:6
Matthew 5:9
“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” – Matthew 5:9
Ephesians 4:26-27
“In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” – Ephesians 4:26-27
The Joy of Marriage
Holy matrimony brings joy and fulfillment unlike any other relationship. We should cherish the moments of laughter, joy, and shared experiences that build lasting memories. Celebrating the simple joys in life together strengthens our marriage and reminds us of the love that drew us to each other in the first place. We are blessed to enjoy this journey together, creating beautiful stories filled with laughter and happiness.
Ecclesiastes 9:9
“Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun—all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.” – Ecclesiastes 9:9
Proverbs 5:18
“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.” – Proverbs 5:18
Song of Solomon 2:16
“My beloved is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies.” – Song of Solomon 2:16
Psalm 128:3
“Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table.” – Psalm 128:3
1 Peter 3:9
“Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.” – 1 Peter 3:9
Final Thoughts
As we reflect on the beauty and strength of holy matrimony, we are reminded of the profound purpose and commitment this sacred covenant represents. With love at the center, we are called to support, uplift, and grow together. By keeping faith in the relationship and committing to open communication, we can navigate challenges together and cherish the joyful moments that marriage brings. Let’s continue to honor our commitments with grace and love, as we strive to embody the qualities God desires from our unions.
It is truly a blessing to explore these teachings, and we encourage each other to deepen our understanding of the sacredness of marriage. If you wish to discover more on life and relationships, consider reading about what the Bible says about a future wife or how we can seek fruitfulness in our marriages.