“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9
Building a Solid Foundation
As couples, we desire to stand strong through the years, and this begins with building a solid foundation for our relationship. When we focus on God and His teachings, we create an environment where love can flourish. In a marriage where God is the cornerstone, trust and companionship grow, allowing us to weather life’s storms together. This foundation helps us grow deeper in love as we grow older. It teaches us patience, understanding, and above all, how to support each other through thick and thin.
Matthew 7:24
“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” – Matthew 7:24
Proverbs 24:3
“By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established.” – Proverbs 24:3
Psalms 127:1
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.” – Psalms 127:1
1 Corinthians 3:11
“For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ.” – 1 Corinthians 3:11
Isaiah 28:16
“Therefore thus says the Lord God, ‘Behold, I am the one who has laid as a foundation in Zion, a stone, a tested stone, a precious cornerstone, of a sure foundation.'” – Isaiah 28:16
Embracing Changes Together
As time goes by, we will face many changes, both individually and as a couple. Embracing these changes is key to growing old together. Rather than resisting, we can view them as opportunities to deepen our bond and discover new aspects of one another. When we navigate through life’s transitions hand in hand, our connection strengthens and allows us to grow together. It’s important to remember that change is a natural aspect of life, and facing it together only enriches our story.
Ecclesiastes 3:1
“For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.” – Ecclesiastes 3:1
Isaiah 40:31
“But those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” – Isaiah 40:31
2 Corinthians 5:17
“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17
Philippians 3:13-14
“Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead.” – Philippians 3:13-14
Romans 12:2
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind…” – Romans 12:2
Cherishing Memories Together
As we grow old together, cherishing memories becomes an essential part of our relationship. These shared experiences create a tapestry of love and companionship that we can lean on during difficult times. Reminiscing about the joyful moments helps us appreciate one another more deeply. Together, we can create new memories while revisiting the old, ensuring that our bond remains strong and filled with gratitude and love.
Proverbs 17:22
“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” – Proverbs 17:22
Philippians 1:3
“I thank my God in all my remembrance of you.” – Philippians 1:3
Psalms 105:5
“Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he pronounced.” – Psalms 105:5
1 Chronicles 16:12
“Remember the wondrous works that he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he uttered.” – 1 Chronicles 16:12
Psalms 77:11
“I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your wonders of old.” – Psalms 77:11
Growing Through Challenges Together
Challenges are a part of life and they provide us with the chance to grow stronger as a couple. Navigating these challenges together brings us closer and fosters resilience in our relationship. By leaning on each other, we can tackle life’s hurdles and emerge even stronger. Thus, we build a foundation of trust, love, and unity. Remember, it is in the trials that we discover the depths of our commitment to one another.
James 1:2-3
“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds.” – James 1:2-3
Romans 5:3-4
“Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope.” – Romans 5:3-4
1 Peter 5:10
“And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.” – 1 Peter 5:10
Psalms 34:19
“Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.” – Psalms 34:19
Philippians 4:13
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” – Philippians 4:13
Strengthening Our Commitment
As we age, our commitment to each other should grow ever stronger. This commitment is inspired by our love for one another and ultimately rooted in our love for God. By putting God at the center of our relationship, we empower our bond. We can remind one another of our vows and the promise to stand united in all circumstances. By nurturing our commitment, we create a safe space for each other and enrich our aging journey together.
Colossians 3:14
“And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” – Colossians 3:14
Ephesians 5:25
“Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” – Ephesians 5:25
1 John 4:19
“We love because he first loved us.” – 1 John 4:19
Proverbs 18:22
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” – Proverbs 18:22
Hebrews 13:4
“Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.” – Hebrews 13:4
Supporting Each Other in Prayer
Prayer is one of the most important practices we can share as a couple. By praying for and with each other, we open a line of communication with God that strengthens our connection. Sharing our spiritual lives not only allows us to lift each other up in times of need but also celebrates our joys, fostering a deeper intimacy. As we grow old together, let’s remember the power of prayer in sustaining our love and partnership.
Philippians 4:6
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6
James 5:16
“Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” – James 5:16
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances…” – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Matthew 18:19-20
“Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.” – Matthew 18:19-20
Mark 11:24
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” – Mark 11:24
Final Thoughts
As we explore the beauty of couples growing old together, we recognize the importance of love, commitment, and shared experiences. Building a strong foundation and embracing life’s changes enrich our love story. Together, we face challenges and cherish memories, reminding ourselves that each moment brings us closer. By supporting one another through prayer and commitment, we nurture a bond that allows us to flourish. The journey of growing old together is a beautiful testament to God’s design for love and relationships.
May we continue to seek inspiration from His Word, as we navigate life together in faith and love. Remember, every day is an opportunity to strengthen our relationship and grow deeper in connection with one another. I encourage you to explore more topics to read on love and encouragement, or about keeping God at the center of your marriage, as we grow in our relationships.